Julien is endlessly energetic and precociously brilliant, but unable to bear the heartbreak of his mother's impending death. Sohpie is wildly imaginative, mischievous and determined to be different, y...( read more )et in search of someone who'll both accept and love her. When they meet one another, everything changes. They begin what seems to be a child's momentary amusement. Soon, the game has become something far more larger and thrilling than the sad and disappointing world around them.
What is it like to be lonely? In every single moment you just seem to flutter by, not making any real connections but meeting people who never truly meet you.
Then for two glorious months you finally connect with someone, only to watch the connection disappear as quickly as it arrived.
These points in all our lives are what the new film, "Wicker Park" is trying to explore. But does the film really understand the human psyche? Not really.
"Wicker Park" is a remake of the 1996 French film, "L’Appartement" which starred Vincent Cassel and Monica Bellucci. In the new film, Josh Hartnett stars as Matthew Simon, a drab, lonely banker, stuck in a relationship he doesn’t want with fellow banker, Rebecca (Jessica Pare). Matt doesn’t really know what he wants from life on the eve of the biggest deal of his career. His whole financial future rests on Matt making his flight to China.
Then the impossible occurs, Matt goes to make a phone call but finds the booth busy. As he enters the restroom the voice in the booth sounds oddly familiar, almost like it belonged to his last great love, Lisa (Diane Kruger). Could it be that she is about to come back into his life? Matt bolts the restroom to find out if it was Lisa.
But Matt misses her. Now it is up to him to piece together some clues she left behind, to find out if it is Lisa and maybe reunite with her. What is Matt to do about the trip to China and his current girlfriend? Or maybe he just doesn’t care?
The best way to describe "Wicker Park" is that it is what a film would be like, if a director took a French film studies course and decided to remake his favorite film from that course. Except what the young filmmaker doesn’t realize is that you can’t make a great French work in the Hollywood system. Director Paul McGuigan garnered a lot of acclaim with his independent thrillers, "Gangster No.1" and "The Reckoning", but his sense of romantic entanglements and yearnings leave a lot to the imagination. McGuigan does some really interesting things with flashbacks and transitions in the film. The film is shot really slick and almost feels a lot like an art film, but is too well-lit to feel like a French film. I also really felt the actors were on auto-pilot through a lot of their scenes. Even the supposed-to-be ravenous love scene between Hartnett and Kruger lacked the primal or passion-filled punch the film itself desired. There were also so many flashbacks that I almost felt, in some ways I was watching a "chick-flick" version of "Memento".
Then there is Hartnett. This guy has three distinct acting faces. One is a sort of "puffy-eyed" yearning with his bottom lip extended slightly. The second is a "confused-pout" where he crinkles up the wrinkles on his forehead and looks like a confused puppy. The third is his dramatic face which is required when he delivers a lot of dialogue in the really serious scenes. That’s all he needs for this flick. I know the guy has other looks because he was brilliant in "O" and I know he can do love scenes like in "Pearl Harbor". But in this film he seems to have taken his whole character’s drab life way, way too seriously. If I had to pick a standout in this film it has to be Rose Byrne, because she got the only real part with acting muscles. She is good in her more reserved scenes as well as her tenser scenes, but I guess anyone could have been more flamboyant against Hartnett’s steadfast performance. I had a really hard time liking or caring about any of the characters. By the film’s third act, the characters were so closely tied to each other that it was almost incestuous. And since when does a French love story have a happy ending? There was some nice photography but as for the rest of the film I really wanted so much more. This is probably the most boring love story I have seen in a really long time. I just wish he got on the damn plane!
Valentine's Day is well known as the day of romance; a day for lovers and not single people.
Every year, I remember a particular Valentine's Day when I was single and working away from home and I'd not connected the date with that event. I boldly entered the dining room of the hotel I was staying in to find... low lights, lots of hearts and red candles and, of course, lots of couples having quiet, romantic conversations - heads close together, sipping champagne.
At that point my pride wouldn't allow me to turn and walk away so I decided to brazen it out. I asked for a table for one. Taken aback, the waitress took me across to one at the side of the room and I sat down and looked at the menu. Not surprisingly even the menu had a Valentine's theme. I decided to avoid the aphrodisiac offerings and selected my evening meal. It was then I noticed I was sat at the only table without a lighted candle... And lots of the couples were looking at me. I picked up my book and when the waitress returned with my glass of wine I said 'Would you light the candle please'. I decided that even if I was dining alone on this the most romantic day of the year, it didn't need to be in the dark.
This experience has stuck in my mind for many years and as we get closer to "that date" my thoughts drift to other people who may be spending Valentine's Day alone, especially if that is not their preference. You don't need to be in the dark, here are 10 things you could do to ensure you're in the light on Valentine's Day.
Have a pampering night in. Light some scented candles, have a bath, facial.....etc.
Go out with a group of friends to see an action movie or thriller.
Spend the day at the races - set yourself a budget and enjoy the excitement and possibility of a great win!
Write yourself a letter and compliment yourself on all your best qualities, talents and strengths.
Spend the day at a place where you feel at peace and happy.
Invite your single friends around and have an evening of good food, wine and playing games
Go out and do something active during the day - use up loads of energy then enjoy relaxing in a warm bath.
Go to your favourite cafe take a newspaper or good book - pretend to read it but really be people watching those around you
Ring up all your friends and chat for hours about the wonderful things which are going on in your lives.
You might not want or choose to be alone on this fine romantic day. If that's where you find yourself you don't have to feel low, treat it as a day to love yourself because, remember, 'you're worth it'.
Alone? Wish you had a girl to call your own? Here are some proven tips on how to get girls!If you want to learn how to get girls, then you've come to the right place.I will teach you the start-to-finish process that will allow you to get girls asap.
Before we kick into the tips, let me just tell you a few things about myself…
I used to struggle to get the attention of the girls, because I had no idea how to go about it. I mean, I bought nice clothes, landed myself a good job and even took out a loan to get a better car.
But, none of that mattered.
Why?
Because if you want to know how to get girls, the first thing you need to realize is that girls are more interested in your personality and behavior than anything else you can buy, or achieve....Maybe my advise works on you guys, so buckle up and get ready to learn all you need to know!
* Don't ever try too hard, she'll lose interest fast. Make sure she sees you laughing with your guy friends occasionally. When you make time for her, don't rub it in, but certainly on a here and there basis it may be in your favor to let her know you made the time available, it certainly wasn't out of desperation or lack of things or women to do. She needs to know you have an independent life outside of her.
* Make friends with her friends. They may just tell her you're a great guy. Don't get involved with any of them, though.
* Make the first move! Courage is attractive.
* Bring up the gossip from other people, it gets her excited.
* Profanity is not the answer to trying to look cool or tough.
* Swearing isn't great you're not going to win any hands by being a potty mouth.
* Smile. It's charming.
* Stand up for her. If you see someone bullying her or just being a jerk to her, go up to them (in front of her) and say, "Hey, man, knock it off, okay?" Don't act all tough guy or anything. Just be confident.
* Sometimes the ones that are not so popular are the best ones for you.
* Make sure that the object of your affection doesn't have a boyfriend. Be subtle in determining whether or not she has a boyfriend [for example, look for a ring]. It's generally not recommended to ask her directly, as it tends to come off as brash and self-centered.
* Wink at her
* Take out a pen and write your number on her hand, then say "call me" in a deep (not too deep or fake) voice. Do it and look in her eyes smile and walk away, you have her.
* Compliments makes a girl feel good about herself and more willing to open up to you!
* Joke with her. Doing that makes her sure that you are confident and have a sense of humor.
* Try to be her friend first.
* Don't just go up to her and ask her out first. Start a conversation and go from there.
* Try not to embarrass yourself.
* When conversing with her as well as other females, position yourself closer to her. No matter who the other person is, do it. It shows that you're into her. It's subtle body language.
* Don't use cheesy pick-up lines such as "Do you have a mirror in your pocket?..." This is pointless and will most likely ruin it for you.
* Randomly walk up to her and give her a compliment and walk away. This will make her happy and become interested in you.
* Give her a hug from behind and hold her for a few seconds. But don't be too clingy. Its really annoying when a guy wont leave a girl alone.
* If you make fun of her she probably will not become interested, and might even become angry with you.
* If she's shy don't automatically dismiss her and talk to someone else, you were the one who was interested in her first.
If your looking for a pick-up line that will immediately elicit a response from your date, look no further than this review...These lines are great for dating relationships, burgeoning romantic relationships, or just trying to be a player. These can be seen as lines on how to get girls or guys--or guys and girls--or just to get your ass kicked....hahahaha...good times....
****Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?
****Hi, my name is {name}, how do you like me so far?
****I can sense that you're a terrific lover, and it intimidates me a little.
****You see my friend over there? [Point to friend who sheepishly waves from afar] He wants to know if YOU think I'M cute.
****Okay, so I came over here to ask you to dance, but I'm kind of concerned. I mean, we could hit it off really well, end up having a few drinks, next thing you know you're giving me your number because I'm too shy to ask for it, I finally get up the nerve to call and we take in a movie, have some dinner, I relax, you relax, we go out a few more times, get to know each other's friends, spend a lot of time together, then finally have get past this sexual tension and really develop this intense sex life that is truly incredible, decide our relationship is solid and stable, so we move in together for a while, then a few months later get married, I get a promotion, you get a promotion, we buy a bigger house. You really want kids, but I really want freedom, but we have a kid anyway, only to find that I am resentful, the sparks start to fade and to rekindle them we have two more lovely kids, but now I work too much to keep up with the bills, have no time for you, you're stressed and stop taking really good care of yourself, so to get past our slow sex life and my declining self-confidence I turn to an outside affair for sexual gratification. You find out because I'm careless and a lousy liar, you throw me out (justifiably so) and we have to explain to the kids why mommy and daddy are splitting up. That's just too sad. Think about the children. For God's sake, if you dance with me and we hit it off, let's just keep it sexual, because we both know where it's going.
****Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too.
****I may not be Fred Flintstone, but I bet I can make your Bed Rock.
****I may not be the best looking guy here, but I'm the only one talking to you.
****Yo Baby, you be my Dairy Queen, I'll be your Burger King, you treat me right, and I'll do it your way, right away.
****If you were a new hamburger at McDonald's, you would be McGorgeous.
****Excuse me, do you have your phone number, I've seem to have lost mine.
****If your left leg was Thanksgiving and your right leg Christmas, can I visit you between the holidays?.....hahaha...
****You might not be the best looking girl here, but beauty is only a light switch away.
****If we were the alphabet I would put U and I together.
****You must be tired. You've been running through my mind all evening.
****What's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this.
****You look like someone I know.
**** Do you come here often?
****I lost my teddy bear, will you sleep with me?
****Can I have your picture so I can show Santa what I want for Christmas?
****The word of the day is "legs." Let's go back to my place and spread the word.
****That shirt is very becoming on you, but if I was on you I'd be coming too!
****Hey, I didnt know angels flew so low.
****Do you have a map? Because I just keep getting lost in your eyes!
****If you were a tear drop, I would never cry for the fear of losing you.
****I wasnt sure if you were a beautiful angel or a sexy devil, but now that I'm close see heaven in your eyes. ****I know how to please a woman.
****Did it hurt when you fell? [Girl: Huh?] When you fell from heaven?
****It's a good thing that I have my library card. Why? Because I am totally checking you out!!
****I would die a million deaths if it meant I could be with you!
****If I had a garden I'd put your two lips and my two lips together.
****You: Your father must have been a thief. Them: Huh? You: Because he stole the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes.
****You're so hot you would make the devil sweat.
****If you were a booger I would pick you first.
****The only thing your eyes haven't told me is your name.
****If you stood in front of a mirror and held up 11 roses, you would see 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.
****Are you lost ma'am? Because heaven is a long way from here.
****Do u sleep on your belly at night? If no, can I?
****I've been wondering, do your lips taste as good as they look?
****I think there's something wrong with my eyes because I can't take them off you.
****Nice legs, what time do they open?
****I was wondering if you have a moment to spare for me to hit on you?
****What’s a nice girl like you doing in a dirty mind like mine?
****You're ugly, but you intrigue me...
****Can you take me to the bakery? Because, I want a Cutiepie like you..
****Is that a ladder in your pants... or the stairway to heaven?
****Excuse me, I'm lost. Can you give me directions to your house?
****You turn my software into hardware!
****Was your Dad a baker? Because you've got a nice set of buns.
****Do you want to do math? Let's add a bed, subtract your clothes, divide your legs and multiply!
>>>>>>>hahhahahahahah..... hope you like it guys!!!
Steps.... Use lip balm, especially if your lips tend to get dry and chapped. soft lips are simply more inviting. Most importantly, nobody wants to kiss someone with a stinky mouth, so carry some breath mints or gum with you, especially if you’re going out on a date. Breath mints are preferable, because you can use them in a pinch and not have to worry about getting rid of them. Also be sure to stay well hydrated; a dry mouth usually will smell worse. Of course, make sure you don’t have anything stuck in your teeth, either.
Test the waters. Pay attention to signals that the other person is into you and is ready for a kiss. Does he or she seem comfortable touching you. Do they brush up against you or frequently enter your personal space with playful, innocent touches. Has the subject of kissing come up in conversation? If you haven’t noticed any of these signals, but the person does seem “into you,” try discreetly and innocently breaking the touch barrier (guys will generally be very receptive to this, many girls will not) or bringing up kissing when you’re talking. The key is to be subtle and to watch the other person’s reaction.
Wait for the right moment. There’s usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an onscreen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected.
Get permission for the kiss. You usually don’t have to ask if you can kiss someone, but you do need to make sure your partner is willing to kiss you. The easiest way, of course, is to ask, but it just makes things awkward so don't . Ask “May I kiss you?” or say “I’d like to kiss you,” and lean in right away. Many girls (and guys) don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you’re doing and silently look into the person’s eyes for a moment or two. If your partner's eyes drift down to your lips that’s a pretty good sign that he or she is ready for a kiss—chances are the reaction may be subtler, however. Another good way to get permission is to just lean in and try to kiss the person or gently pull him/her toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away at any time, he or she is not ready for a kiss.
Approach for the kiss. Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).
Kiss gently. There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There’s a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don’t press your mouth onto your partner’s--just let your lips meet--and don’t try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. A soft, closed-mouth-to-closed-mouth kiss is perfect. Break the kiss for a moment, keeping your head close to your partner’s, and if your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn’t pull away, go in for another, longer, but still gentle, kiss.
Make the kiss the reason for the kiss. A lot of people (mostly men) seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing or start putting their hands in inappropriate places. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don’t move too fast.
Let your partner participate in the kiss. Good kissing requires give-and-take, so read your partner’s body language and pay attention to clues (sighs or moans) that tell you you’re doing something he or she likes. Let your partner kiss you back, and move with him or her as long as you’re comfortable with what he or she is doing. Breathe. If you’re kissing for an extended period, it’s easy to forget to breathe. Gasping, however, or turning blue is not romantic. Take small breaths through your nose as you kiss. You do not forget how to breathe! Use your hands. While you should keep your hands polite, especially on a first kiss, you don’t necessarily want them just dangling at your sides. Embrace your partner, cup his or her face very gently in your hands, or run your hands through his or her hair. Another turn on for the first kiss is to gently caress their shoulder while you kiss. It shows you are comfortable with him/her. Don't forget your manners! Be a gentleman (or a lady) at all times, and you'll be more kissable.
